"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When should I call girl?

j0n024

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Hey guy's I need some help again :rolleyes: .
I got this girls number today and said I would call her Sunday at 9 to do something togethor, What should I do? Should I call her and set something up or should I call her and say that I have something to do and schedule it next week? Thanks for all adivce.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It seems you care about this person. That's your first mistake right there.

You should have a few other numbers or prospects so you wont care too much about this one.

Thus, do not call her to please her or worry about losing her, call her because you want to or because you feel like it and have nothing better to do and dont worry how it goes.
 

Jaxon

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When you get a number never tell them that you'll call, let alone the day and time. After getting the number you should say something like "cool, see ya", without telling her you'll call.

This way she will be wondering whether or not she'll hear from you. Since you told her a specific day and time you'd call, I would not call her on that day at all. Call her Monday or Tuesday night and if she asks why you didn't call her Sunday, tell her you were busy. And DON'T apologize.
 

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hehe ok I gotcha, But the only reason I look like I "Care" is because this is actually my first Number close!!!!! I dont care about the girl only to fvk her but other then that I dont give a **** about, ok I'll call her Monday and set up something later on the only thing I dont know about is how can you tell if she forget about if she does do I just say nevermind and hang up or what?
 

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I got excited, I thought the title said "When should I get a call girl?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hehe ok I gotcha, But the only reason I look like I "Care" is because this is actually my first Number close!!!!! I dont care about the girl only to fvk her but other then that I dont give a **** about, ok I'll call her Monday and set up something later on the only thing I dont know about is how can you tell if she forget about if she does do I just say nevermind and hang up or what?


Wrong attitude dude.
Don't go around using chicks.
That just makes you a fvcking sh1t head.
Remember shes a human being just like you.
If she knew your agenda and wasn't a slut
you get nothing and deservedly so.

If you got her number like on a monday then wait till like thusday
to call her so you don't look desperate and set up a date.
 
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