when should i call? and i cant read her IL!!

[ScrewIt]

OK, i went out w/my friend + her friends, one of them was a HB8.
she was the reserved type of girls. she doesnt drink too!! haha.

I was being C+F part of the time i was w/them. later on the other half of the nite, we were out drinking, when my friend walked away...she took her cell and was looking through the phonebook for my name to look at my #. then my friend got back and snatched the phone back before she got to see my #.

then later on in the night, i said, "hey, we should get together later this week, let me get your #." then i gave her my cell and she added it to my phonebook....all she has is the home # cause she has no cell!!!

usually she doesnt really talk unless i start talkin to her...or she just doesnt relaly talk at all! me and my friend were teasing each other, and i was sleepy + buzzed. so i didnt note if the HB8 was looking over or not, but from one of my glances i think she was looking over and got jealous. Later on we all went home.

I dont know if she thinks i asked for her # for hangout purposes, or for a date. I cant measure her IL, reserved girls are so god damn hard to tell.

can you guys interpret anything from this and what her IL is?
and exactly how long should i wait to call? dinner date or no? and how long should the dinner date last?

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by ScrewIt
OK, i went out w/my friend + her friends, one of them was a HB8.
she was the reserved type of girls. she doesnt drink too!! haha.

I was being C+F part of the time i was w/them. later on the other half of the nite, we were out drinking, when my friend walked away...she took her cell and was looking through the phonebook for my name to look at my #. then my friend got back and snatched the phone back before she got to see my #.

then later on in the night, i said, "hey, we should get together later this week, let me get your #." then i gave her my cell and she added it to my phonebook....all she has is the home # cause she has no cell!!!

usually she doesnt really talk unless i start talkin to her...or she just doesnt relaly talk at all! me and my friend were teasing each other, and i was sleepy + buzzed. so i didnt note if the HB8 was looking over or not, but from one of my glances i think she was looking over and got jealous. Later on we all went home.

I dont know if she thinks i asked for her # for hangout purposes, or for a date. I cant measure her IL, reserved girls are so god damn hard to tell.

can you guys interpret anything from this and what her IL is?
and exactly how long should i wait to call? dinner date or no? and how long should the dinner date last?

Sound's like her intrest levels pretty high if she gave out her number and kept looking at you..

Remember girls are so much more insecure then you think. There's this HB9 in my math class who I know has high IL in me, but she's so bloody shy. I'm still figuring out how exactly to get inside of her (take that how you want ), anyways, all girls are different. Just keep trying new things, but keep who you are intact, and don't change or adapt to her.

Keep em talking. Now that you have her #, you have no excuses. So get her alone at a coffee house or a park, or something, or hell even go on a walk if you have to. GET HER TALKING! IF she's not talking around you, she isn't completely comfortable, which means that it's not going to go very far.

 

[ScrewIt]

reserved girls!! arggh headache

Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Sound's like her intrest levels pretty high if she gave out her number and kept looking at you..

Remember girls are so much more insecure then you think. There's this HB9 in my math class who I know has high IL in me, but she's so bloody shy. I'm still figuring out how exactly to get inside of her (take that how you want ), anyways, all girls are different. Just keep trying new things, but keep who you are intact, and don't change or adapt to her.

Keep em talking. Now that you have her #, you have no excuses. So get her alone at a coffee house or a park, or something, or hell even go on a walk if you have to. GET HER TALKING! IF she's not talking around you, she isn't completely comfortable, which means that it's not going to go very far.

haha yea there's also a hb9 in one of my classes that meet 1x a week, she's also reserved. but we know each other from last semester, but still...she's hot. coffee? i dont think she's a coffee person. her parents are overprotective of her, thats why she's pretty reserved herself...but she still hangs out later after 12 nonetheless. i guess maybe we could go out and eat.

when we're alone she talks to me, we get pretty comfortable i guess. but i think we both end up being careful what to say to each other most of hte time.

since she's alsogoing to school and working like me, i dont know her schedule. im either going to have to call at night and see what her schedule is, or just call and say lets go out and eat that day. there's really not much 2 ppl can do other tahn eat and coffee.

 

[Omega]

Re: reserved girls!! arggh headache

Originally posted by ScrewIt
haha yea there's also a hb9 in one of my classes that meet 1x a week, she's also reserved. but we know each other from last semester, but still...she's hot. coffee? i dont think she's a coffee person. her parents are overprotective of her, thats why she's pretty reserved herself...but she still hangs out later after 12 nonetheless. i guess maybe we could go out and eat.

when we're alone she talks to me, we get pretty comfortable i guess. but i think we both end up being careful what to say to each other most of hte time.

since she's alsogoing to school and working like me, i dont know her schedule. im either going to have to call at night and see what her schedule is, or just call and say lets go out and eat that day. there's really not much 2 ppl can do other tahn eat and coffee.

Yea, don't be scared to let go once in a while, just make sure you keep it suave.

Make it original though. No movie dates or anything well known of that stature. Make yourself unique, and as I said, TALK, and it'll go great.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Dude, call her up and ask her to do a fun activity! Save her from her boring reserved personality and sedentary lifestyle, she'll be happy to follow!!!! Trust me!!