ItsTheAttitude said:
Maybe it's because i'm not getting to know more girls after i got to know her.
Yeah,that's possible. It's best to have more than just one girl on the radar screen. That way you don't have to worry about oneitis,plus if you run into a situaion like this,you can easily let her go and focus more of your attention onto the others who don't have any hangups.
ItstheAttitude said:
She's the kind of girl that I can actually have fun talking to.
There's nothing wrong with this. If your goal is fun,then hey,keep on talking with her. However,if your goal is to date,then more than likely,you're wasting your time. I'm not telling you to stop,it's your time.You can do whatever you want to do. I just don't want you to be tricked or deceived into thinking that you hanging out with her is leading you to one thing when it's really not.
ItsTheAttitude said:
That's why i'm kind of hoping it'll work out rather than just giving her the boot.
Agaiin,I'm not saying to give her the boot...
BUT,
I AM SAYING not to put your life on hold while she's stuck in "maybe/might/I don't know" land. If she want to waste her time stuck in the middle of making a decision,then fine,let her. But don't let her decision keep
you single/alone.
ItsTheAttitude said:
Anyways, if i stop contacting her, and she texts or calls me first, what would i do? I can't possibly ignore her totally.
Ok,this is where it gets a little tricky:I'll try to explain this as clearly as I can.
You say that if you stop contacting her,and she calls or text you first,what should you do:first of all,you need to understand
why it is that she'd contact you. If she doesn't like you or isn't attracted to you now,then if you go no contact and she calls/text you out of the blue first,it's NOT because she's interested in you,it's because she
misses you.
If you two talk all the time,then you go 3 days without calling her,then she calls you,it's because she misses you. Don't fool yourself into thinking that she called you because she all of the sudden has decided to make a decision,or because she's decided to leave her boyfriend and date you now.
So if you want to go the no contact route and let her call you,then cool,do it. Just understand
why she calls you if she does.