When she's aware of Game

[Die Hard]

When a woman knows about Game and all the principles we teach each other on SoSuave, is it neccesary to adjust your game to that?

I mean, should you just act like you would with any other woman or should you be more careful and be smarter about the way you "game" her because she can "see through" your behavior more easily than normal women who are not aware of Game??

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Continue as normal but play aloof. In other words, no need for you to be "aware" of game too...catch my drift?

Even women who are aware still fail at making logical, rational decisions.

 

[guru1000]

A highly interested girl will not "game" you.

The "game" was only created to escape the ego-shattering truth that she just may not be that interested in you. Most often what you misconstrue as her "gaming," is just an indication that she is just not that into you.

When a girl attempts to "game" me, this means she is willing to lose me. And thus I give her exactly what she wants: she loses me instantly. No second guessing, no contemplation, just an instant NEXT. Feels good to keep your power and not to be controlled by another, huh?

To answer your question: The "game" is just an illusion, and thus you should not feel the need to "game" her at all. She's aware of "game"? Great, then she is aware of nothing. Treat her as you feel the need to treat her with no restriction. If she becomes difficult--because of the lack of illusory "game"--then drop her.

 

[BeExcellent]

Do as you normally would do. So she understands "game", so what? That has no bearing on your job to lead & guide the interaction. None whatsoever.

If she knows the game well she may see whatever cracks there are in your gamesmanship. Your post (to me) implies this concern.

Do you have solid inner game? If you lack inner game and are just a packet full of PUA how-to posing as a player she will read that conflicting information off you in a flash and may find you amusing and toy with you or just brush you off entirely.

If she understands game & engages with you anyway either she likes you and/or appreciates your frame

OR

she is looking to one up you or power play you, which reveals itself very quickly. At which time you should immediately withdraw your attention from her as @guru1000 suggests.

Learn to NEXT ruthlessly for low interest. This will save you more time & useless effort than I can ever explain.

Great "game" is a dance and can be enjoyable for both people. It suggests an understanding of one's personal power in interaction, a rewarding seduction; a partner with prowess; a genuine appreciation. Great seducers & seductresses always understand "game" & often appreciate others "in the know". It is a subconscious trait at the advanced level.

If she is high interest and finds you authentic (you have solid inner game), then she will know that you own your inherent value and this is a most reassuring thing to a woman. It allows her to relax and feel secure. @Atom Smasher discusses this in his recent related post.

Once you have thus internalized game her understanding of "game" doesn't matter. You are the man & should do as you will.

 

[Infern0]

In my view the idea of game is to be authentic

It's about inner confidence and having the balls to be yourself and not be neurotic, insecure etc

So in this case there isn't much for her to be "aware of"

If your frauding and playing mind games and "techniques" where she might "catch you out" your doing it wrong

 

[CMNILS87]

If a DJ was fully internalized and fully confident with a path in life, would she even know she's being gamed is the real question?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

If a DJ was fully internalized and fully confident with a path in life,

^^^

That's kind of the goal. All "game" is reverse engineered from dudes who do that sort of thing NATURALLY.

If you even need to THINK in terms of "game" (e.g. choosing your behavior or words instead of acting and speaking naturally) it's an indication that it's not fully internalized.

So if she "picks up" on your game what is REALLY picking up on is some kind of INCONGRUENCE, kind of like when dogs sense certain people are sketchy and others aren't.

That's not a good sign women or not. All MEN should strive for PURE CONGRUENCE in all areas.

So, to answer the OP's question, if she "picks up" on your game, BE MORE NATURAL instead of trying to "be" a certain way.

One thing that might work:

"Sorry, I get really nervous around people I really like and I start to microanalyze my behavior..."

 

[grayclif]

If a DJ was fully internalized and fully confident with a path in life, would she even know she's being gamed is the real question?

She may have a "this is too good to be true" feeling.