Master Don Juan
- May 2, 2022
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The submissive part isn't what I asked for. I asked her for nothing, agreed to meet up again and made it perfectly clear I dont want a LTR.Maybe she came back "submissive" cause she ran out of options? And you improving and doing the work in yourself shown her what she lost?
The same issues that led to end of the relationship are still there, and will come back, an ex is an ex for a reason. Its hard like you say, but deep down in your gut, you know its wrong.
I definitely made tons of progress. Ive been in therapy and it worked great for me. I am way ,way calmer mostly due having no expectations anymore .
To be clear I dont have a child with this woman. I just said it to make clear it's not the first time I would do something like this.Hang on am i reading this right .......you have already lived with this girl and have a child with her ?
I get what you're saying. And you are probably right.If she moves in with you, ALL the things that bother/bothered you will be amplified a hundredfold.
It is virtually never a good idea to have a woman move in with you. It will complicate your life in ways that most men can’t imagine pre-cohabitation.
Unfortunately, you will not heed this advice and will go ahead and become shackled to her. Usually when guys write the way you do, they’ve already made the decision and are looking for validation.
You broke up previously for a reason. Trying to revive a broken relationship usually ends in disaster. You’re even talking about side plates. We will be here to help you pick up the pieces.
Let me clearify, I made this thread because there things are a part of being or becoming a DJ. You'll be around women, trying to do " everything right" and then shyte like this will happen. Some women will push you to a crossroad to make decisions. It's more of a luxury problem .
Some women will ghost you after a while, others are determined to have your baby. I just wondered if other members went through something similar. That momenta woman gives you REAL pressure to make a huge decision .