When she speaks LISTEN

[Who Dares Win]

For the simple fact that she will give you indirectly the outcome will be.

Pay attention especially about how she talks about men in general and even more about men which are somehow in your same category.

I can assure you that if you are an old school man and you hear talking about how her friend is in a terrible situation cause her boyfriend is the macho type which doesnt allow her "to go out with the girls" or meet her ex for a cofee and that she would never accept it, its gonna be hugh problem with her.

Any hint of bitterness against men is a clear sign that not only she wont make it easy for you but in fact either directly or indirectly she will attempt to get a "revenge", either dragging you without giving anything in return or inflicting you sufference.

Dont let me start about girls which make it clear that guys which look for sex are disgusting and creepy, it either means that she has problem with that with men or with you in particular, bad news both cases.

Also if she mentions about how guys she was dating that somehow were a disappointment to her or got mad at her after she did or refused something, be sure that the same is gonna happen to you.

Needless to say how a hugh red flag is if she hints that she makes fun of guys with her friends, if its something she finds funny it means you are potential guest of the new episode of the girly show, keep your ears open.

So first look at her actions but right after, listen at her indirect messages.

 

[Purefilth]

+ Rep. Can relate and confirm.

 

[youngmack]

I thought if she complained about how men are dogs, and how bitter she is that she is damaged and easier to ****? Wouldn't that mean that she would put out quicker?

 

[nismo-4]

+ Rep. Can relate and confirm.

I cosign this!

 

[Who Dares Win]

I thought if she complained about how men are dogs, and how bitter she is that she is damaged and easier to ****? Wouldn't that mean that she would put out quicker?

Dont confuse insecure abused girls which seek acceptance with angry rancorous girls which are on a crusade because things dont go their way and lack emphaty for other people needs.

The first case would be a girl that was mistreate at home and tries to seek intimacy with men by giving her body because her low self esteem make her think she cant do any better (she complains about men being a$$holes).

The second case is the girl which has been raised with gloves from her family/school system/peer group and thinks her sh1t doesnt stink so she finds nothing wrong in behaving in ways that push men to leave her only to establish that she "has to punish men" for being less than what she wants.

The first girl usualy say that men are a$$holes looking for sex while the second one says those men looking for sex are disgusting, it may seem similar but its very different attitude, since the first imply a person behaving bad while the second imply a person BEING bad.

There are different types of damage, not all come from being mistreated, in fact many comes from being treated too good and not punished for wrongs or being held accountable.

I stop here since this is not the topic, however who she is you can clearly get by listening at what she says and how she says it.

 

[youngmack]

Dont confuse insecure abused girls which seek acceptance with angry rancorous girls which are on a crusade because things dont go their way and lack emphaty for other people needs.

The first case would be a girl that was mistreate at home and tries to seek intimacy with men by giving her body because her low self esteem make her think she cant do any better (she complains about men being a$$holes).

The second case is the girl which has been raised with gloves from her family/school system/peer group and thinks her sh1t doesnt stink so she finds nothing wrong in behaving in ways that push men to leave her only to establish that she "has to punish men" for being less than what she wants.

The first girl usualy say that men are a$$holes looking for sex while the second one says those men looking for sex are disgusting, it may seem similar but its very different attitude, since the first imply a person behaving bad while the second imply a person BEING bad.

There are different types of damage, not all come from being mistreated, in fact many comes from being treated too good and not punished for wrongs or being held accountable.

I stop here since this is not the topic, however who she is you can clearly get by listening at what she says and how she says it.

Ah ha, perfect explanation.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Almost forgot two particular examples especially for those who travel:

"All those foreigner which thinks they can just come here and get girls" or

"Im done dating such kind of guys, really hate them and its not worth".


In the first case you can be sure that if you are a foreigner visiting such country you are very likely under trial even before you open your mouth, making a move would simply accellerate what would come otherwise, pain in the ass from her, a girl interested in you wouldnt simply risk to insult you or even more likely she would express an opinion favourable to your group.

In the second case its the other way around, dont make the mistake of try to look the opposite of her past guys in the hope of scoring points, its very likely she will stick to that kind of guy.

 

[Mike32ct]

Absolutely correct. What women say can be very useful, but it does take some experience to be able to interpret it properly.

For the simple fact that she will give you indirectly the outcome will be.

Pay attention especially about how she talks about men in general and even more about men which are somehow in your same category.

I can assure you that if you are an old school man and you hear talking about how her friend is in a terrible situation cause her boyfriend is the macho type which doesnt allow her "to go out with the girls" or meet her ex for a cofee and that she would never accept it, its gonna be hugh problem with her.

Any hint of bitterness against men is a clear sign that not only she wont make it easy for you but in fact either directly or indirectly she will attempt to get a "revenge", either dragging you without giving anything in return or inflicting you sufference.

Dont let me start about girls which make it clear that guys which look for sex are disgusting and creepy, it either means that she has problem with that with men or with you in particular, bad news both cases.

Also if she mentions about how guys she was dating that somehow were a disappointment to her or got mad at her after she did or refused something, be sure that the same is gonna happen to you.

Needless to say how a hugh red flag is if she hints that she makes fun of guys with her friends, if its something she finds funny it means you are potential guest of the new episode of the girly show, keep your ears open.

So first look at her actions but right after, listen at her indirect messages.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

girls which make it clear that guys which look for sex are disgusting and creepy

I've heard pretty much this exact same thing. Not sure if it was a $h1t test or not. Either way, I ended up debating them about it, with me winning of course, with them sitting there giving me a confused look. In the end, it probably didn't do any good. I'm sure they just kept going until they found a guy who agreed with them.