Recently I found an old email file from a few years ago (during my AFC days) and I started to read the messages girls sent me back then. The common thing they all told me was that I was sweet or that I was a sweet heart.
I then became clear to me that if a girl says to you that you are sweet then you are being used as emotional tampon.
I realized that when a girl really likes a man or feels attracted to him she doesn't call him sweet. When she likes you she will say, "oh you turn me on with your voice" and other things related to attraction. being a sweet guy has nothing to do with her attraction for you.
I then became clear to me that if a girl says to you that you are sweet then you are being used as emotional tampon.
I realized that when a girl really likes a man or feels attracted to him she doesn't call him sweet. When she likes you she will say, "oh you turn me on with your voice" and other things related to attraction. being a sweet guy has nothing to do with her attraction for you.