"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When she says "I feel really close to you"

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Have you heard this in the past and what did she mean? Did it lead to her saying "I love you"? Or LJBF?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fvck! You next response should be "how close are you feeling right now?"
 

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I've had the same line fed to me a couple times before which did lead to "I love you" which, led me running for the hills!
 

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That means a woman is REALLY into you with one CAVEAT - at THAT MOMENT in time. Women's fookin feeling comes and goes, the more unstable the woman is in emotional maturity, the more likely she can spout off something so intricate and then later act like it never was said. So take advantage of THAT MOMENT when she says it and up the kino. Perhaps it will stick in the long run - there is no guarantee when it comes to women and feelings.

With Respect,

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks guys.

I think it's woman-ese for "I feel attracted to you".

PS - Woman-ese is a bad word now??? Are you kidding??? I can't type ********?
 
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