Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When she says a celebrity is Hot, how do you respond?

montybrown

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So this chick I'm talking to out of no where is all like "This guy is SO hot! from Americas Top Model... I rarely like mexican guys but he's HOT!" and I'm like "...Okay..." Brushed it off. But if she ever brings it up again, what is a great way to over-come this, make her even want me more? This is probably a sh!t test to see if I'm jealous. I really don't give a fvck who celebrity she thinks are hot since she'll never be with them anyway - but I just want a great rebuttle to make her still think highly of me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ken785

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when shes testing you like that...just be like "..yeah, id fvck em!"

its funny and shts her test down and shows that it doesn't effect you. Just dont do it too much or she might believe you.
 

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Personally Ken, I take it a step further. I tell her that yeah, while he is hot, I find celebrity XYZ an absolute dream and just thinking about him gives me an orgasm.

Said in the correct way, it is very c/f.

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young_gun

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Get jealous, get mad, tell her to get the F#@$ out, and donkey punch her as she walks out.
 

aliasguy

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You pretend like you didn't hear her say it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJuan11

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montybrown said:
So this chick I'm talking to out of no where is all like "This guy is SO hot! from Americas Top Model... I rarely like mexican guys but he's HOT!" and I'm like "...Okay..." Brushed it off. But if she ever brings it up again, what is a great way to over-come this, make her even want me more? This is probably a sh!t test to see if I'm jealous. I really don't give a fvck who celebrity she thinks are hot since she'll never be with them anyway - but I just want a great rebuttle to make her still think highly of me.
Imagine you said "Salma Hayek is hot! I rarely like Mexician girls, but she's HOT!" How do you think she would respond?
 

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"Not going to lie... I'd hit it... twice"

Same way you respond to a girl asking if you'd ever cheat on her...

"Not going to lie, baby, I would cheat on you... But he'd have to be REALLY, REALLY hot."
 

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What is the big deal if she says she thinks a guy on TV is hot. Its just conversation, no more no less. Maybe if she did it ALL the time.

Seems like being bothered by it would make you seem insecure.
 
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iqqi said:
What is the big deal if she says she thinks a guy on TV is hot. Its just conversation, no more no less. Maybe if she did it ALL the time.

Seems like being bothered by it would make you seem insecure.
It has nothing to do with insecurity - a girl who says this is constantly looking at men and her man will soon be replaced!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't think you need any reply. Just realize that looks matter and fame matters to women. She's never going to bag that celebrity. Had she said some guy walking by or some guy she's knows is hot that would be disrespect and a different story.
 

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You're seriously worried about your girlfriend thinking a celebrity is attractive? They're freaking celebrities, being attractive is their job. And everybody looks, men, women, it doesn't matter. You shouldn't let stupid crap like this even be a blip on your radar.
 

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What really shuts them up if you say:

"I know what you mean yesterday I had a really good bacon mushroom sandwich and the cheeze was melting all over mmmmmm"

or

"You know he is gay and on heroin right?"
 

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iqqi said:
That's not true, LMS. Lol.
What's not true about what LMS is saying?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I would respond with: "I never knew you took a personal interest in guys who wear make-up; girls are so shallow these days!" ;)

Either that, or agree with her and have a nice sly smile on your face. Either one would work, just poke fun at her for it. I, personally, would not ignore it. Show her you are confident in expressing your views about what she says and show you aren't scared on how she feels about it.

But don't be rude, and ignore young_gun's advice about getting jealous/mad, that's definetly the way the fail this particular **** test! Girls love celebrities all the time, if you want.. you can throw one back at her!
 

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It really is no big Deal. You guys take things way to seriously

it is not a test, nor does it mean anything in most cases

She's says he's hot, big deal. doesn't mean she's in love with him

my gf says one of my bro's is hot, but who is she fvckin? me. she' trying to hook one of her friends up with him
 

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X-ecution said:
It really is no big Deal. You guys take things way to seriously

it is not a test, nor does it mean anything in most cases

She's says he's hot, big deal. doesn't mean she's in love with him

my gf says one of my bro's is hot, but who is she fvckin? me. she' trying to hook one of her friends up with him

You have to remember you are dealing with paranoid guys on here. If the girl doesn't worship us or so much looks at another man, we get scared.

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