"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When she says a celebrity is Hot, how do you respond?

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So this chick I'm talking to out of no where is all like "This guy is SO hot! from Americas Top Model... I rarely like mexican guys but he's HOT!" and I'm like "...Okay..." Brushed it off. But if she ever brings it up again, what is a great way to over-come this, make her even want me more? This is probably a sh!t test to see if I'm jealous. I really don't give a fvck who celebrity she thinks are hot since she'll never be with them anyway - but I just want a great rebuttle to make her still think highly of me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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when shes testing you like that...just be like "..yeah, id fvck em!"

its funny and shts her test down and shows that it doesn't effect you. Just dont do it too much or she might believe you.
 
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Personally Ken, I take it a step further. I tell her that yeah, while he is hot, I find celebrity XYZ an absolute dream and just thinking about him gives me an orgasm.

Said in the correct way, it is very c/f.

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Get jealous, get mad, tell her to get the F#@$ out, and donkey punch her as she walks out.
 
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You pretend like you didn't hear her say it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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montybrown said:
So this chick I'm talking to out of no where is all like "This guy is SO hot! from Americas Top Model... I rarely like mexican guys but he's HOT!" and I'm like "...Okay..." Brushed it off. But if she ever brings it up again, what is a great way to over-come this, make her even want me more? This is probably a sh!t test to see if I'm jealous. I really don't give a fvck who celebrity she thinks are hot since she'll never be with them anyway - but I just want a great rebuttle to make her still think highly of me.
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Imagine you said "Salma Hayek is hot! I rarely like Mexician girls, but she's HOT!" How do you think she would respond?
 
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"Not going to lie... I'd hit it... twice"

Same way you respond to a girl asking if you'd ever cheat on her...

"Not going to lie, baby, I would cheat on you... But he'd have to be REALLY, REALLY hot."
 
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What is the big deal if she says she thinks a guy on TV is hot. Its just conversation, no more no less. Maybe if she did it ALL the time.

Seems like being bothered by it would make you seem insecure.
 
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iqqi said:
What is the big deal if she says she thinks a guy on TV is hot. Its just conversation, no more no less. Maybe if she did it ALL the time.

Seems like being bothered by it would make you seem insecure.
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It has nothing to do with insecurity - a girl who says this is constantly looking at men and her man will soon be replaced!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't think you need any reply. Just realize that looks matter and fame matters to women. She's never going to bag that celebrity. Had she said some guy walking by or some guy she's knows is hot that would be disrespect and a different story.
 
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You're seriously worried about your girlfriend thinking a celebrity is attractive? They're freaking celebrities, being attractive is their job. And everybody looks, men, women, it doesn't matter. You shouldn't let stupid crap like this even be a blip on your radar.
 
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What really shuts them up if you say:

"I know what you mean yesterday I had a really good bacon mushroom sandwich and the cheeze was melting all over mmmmmm"

or

"You know he is gay and on heroin right?"
 
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That's not true, LMS. Lol.
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What's not true about what LMS is saying?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would respond with: "I never knew you took a personal interest in guys who wear make-up; girls are so shallow these days!" ;)

Either that, or agree with her and have a nice sly smile on your face. Either one would work, just poke fun at her for it. I, personally, would not ignore it. Show her you are confident in expressing your views about what she says and show you aren't scared on how she feels about it.

But don't be rude, and ignore young_gun's advice about getting jealous/mad, that's definetly the way the fail this particular **** test! Girls love celebrities all the time, if you want.. you can throw one back at her!
 
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It really is no big Deal. You guys take things way to seriously

it is not a test, nor does it mean anything in most cases

She's says he's hot, big deal. doesn't mean she's in love with him

my gf says one of my bro's is hot, but who is she fvckin? me. she' trying to hook one of her friends up with him
 
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X-ecution said:
It really is no big Deal. You guys take things way to seriously

it is not a test, nor does it mean anything in most cases

She's says he's hot, big deal. doesn't mean she's in love with him

my gf says one of my bro's is hot, but who is she fvckin? me. she' trying to hook one of her friends up with him
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You have to remember you are dealing with paranoid guys on here. If the girl doesn't worship us or so much looks at another man, we get scared.

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