"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When she questions if it was a date or not, semantics arguement

ThisNThat

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This message should really go out to the ladies, but if you're on a "date" with a guy, but if a guy mentions how at the end of said "date" that he enjoyed "the date" and she asks, "What made you think this was a date?" or "You thought this was a date?"

There's nothing more grating than hearing that when you're a man.

As a woman, she should just smile, don't correct the man, and say, "Yes, I had a nice time." I launched her right after that pretty much, as I could tell the argument was getting heated.

I said, "Well, it looks like we are not on the same page, so I wish you luck."

This made me think back to a dating profile of a woman, lecturing men on the rules of online dating interaction. I had passed on it when she said said, "Men, don't ever call it a date, it's a MEET." She had a list of tons of what "us men" shouldn't do when interacting with a woman online, other than the obvious sexual innuendos, there that particular one made me want to tell it to shove her little list up her ass.

So ladies, if you want to F-up a good thing, get into an argument with a guy on whether it's a date or not while ON a date.

I think it's a feminist agenda thing, too. Because she prided herself on having stayed an unattached single mother for almost a decade...going back to school in her 40s.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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