"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When she meets your friends

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Since you PMed me asking for my reply Sosilky I have to say I agree with Rollo and Desdinova pretty much.

The only thing I can add is that you should select your friends well and for maximum trustworthiness.

Then sit back and don't worry about things so much.

After all if they or your girl ever breaks your trust if you are a true DJ and man of worth that friend and your girl will know immediately and without question that to betray your trust is to lose you forever.

There's no going back after they screw you over in some major way.

A DJ has no time to entertain and put up with scumbags in his life.

Leave that to the AFC's and symps with the savior mentality.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think it's better to isolate the girl from your friends for a while at least until you feel she has strong interest in you. It's not really a jealousy or insecurity issue. It's just a wise safety precaution. The truth is that a girl can get bored with you at any second and be interested in another guy at any moment but I think there are some things you can do to help to maintain the attraction much like working out and having good manners.
 
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If she's just a fb its no need to be taking her around friends anyway. if she's your girlfriend you should already trust her. if shes just one of your hoes, what do you care?
 
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LOL what a great 'problem' to have, I don't even have any friends for any propsective girl I may come across in the future to meet. That in itself is way more of a problem than her meeting your alpha friends.

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