"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When she meets your friends

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Since you PMed me asking for my reply Sosilky I have to say I agree with Rollo and Desdinova pretty much.

The only thing I can add is that you should select your friends well and for maximum trustworthiness.

Then sit back and don't worry about things so much.

After all if they or your girl ever breaks your trust if you are a true DJ and man of worth that friend and your girl will know immediately and without question that to betray your trust is to lose you forever.

There's no going back after they screw you over in some major way.

A DJ has no time to entertain and put up with scumbags in his life.

Leave that to the AFC's and symps with the savior mentality.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think it's better to isolate the girl from your friends for a while at least until you feel she has strong interest in you. It's not really a jealousy or insecurity issue. It's just a wise safety precaution. The truth is that a girl can get bored with you at any second and be interested in another guy at any moment but I think there are some things you can do to help to maintain the attraction much like working out and having good manners.
 
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If she's just a fb its no need to be taking her around friends anyway. if she's your girlfriend you should already trust her. if shes just one of your hoes, what do you care?
 
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LOL what a great 'problem' to have, I don't even have any friends for any propsective girl I may come across in the future to meet. That in itself is way more of a problem than her meeting your alpha friends.

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