when she makes no effort?

[Jumpin' Jack Flash]

So ive been dating this girl for bout 4 months now. out of all the times we've met up n done something, i can only think of once when she initiated it (and that was only after me leaving it 2 weeks with no contact, as i was busy during this period). and i have also never met any of her friends, altho i have introduced her to my social circles.
How do you guys deal with someone who doesnt initiate?

 

[noodle]

Please correct me if i'm wrong as i am still learning, but isn't the man suppose to initiate everything that he can? Although it would be easier if the girl initiated but i have been taught that the man has to initiate.

All my girlfriends, except one (which initiated alot), initiated only a couple of things and i did everything else.

thats my 2 cents

 

[musclyjerk]

i can only think of once when she initiated it (and that was only after me leaving it 2 weeks with no contact

You can learn from that.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[Jumpin' Jack Flash]

Well that was only one time. since then we have gone for longer amounts of time without seeing each other, and normally its me to initiate it. correct me if im wrong, but i think its unusual to have been in a relationship for 4 months without ever having met one of her friends?

 

[musclyjerk]

Yes, very.

I would be suprised if she has any feelings invested in the relationship at all from what you've said.

The Muscly Jerk