"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When She Asks "What do you want to do?"

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finickywake

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I'll try to keep it brief. Girl I went on date with two weeks ago, then had dinner at her place, we made out, I left, no sex (she said period). Couldn't hang out last Saturday and asked for a raincheck. I thought she'd lost interest. I went on a date with a different chick that saturday. Contacted first girl again, she wants to hang out tomorrow night.

Last time she invited me over to her place, made it clear that's what she wanted. Now it's more open ended. I just want to get back to her place and take it from there. Is it wrong or "AFC" to be direct/forward while simultaneously suggestive in this situation and just respond "your place"? I honestly don't want to go out on another date or waste gas money driving to some dumb activity.

Thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wishyo

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Oh nice, finally we got a dude with balls. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being direct, in fact it is very good imo! you know what you want (already good), she has interest (2nd plus). just go for it, odds are big time that everything will work out just as you want, if not, well you got other girl, right? dont even try to overthing this one, do what YOU want.
 
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When asked a stupid question/ sh!t tested there are two options

Agree & amplified
Or
Delflect/ reply with something equally stupid.

Her: Sooo...what do you wanna do?

Me/You: Play freeze-tag.

Doesn't matter. You don't owe an explanation. I don't know how this would be a red flag though, chicks ask this sh1t all the time as a sh1t test.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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