"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When she admits that her mood swings destroy opportunities but still loves you.

Infern0

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We both tried to get a first official date but failed because of her mood swings.

But we already met, talked, etc. and because of that we developed our feelings.

We are in the courting stage right now, but I am sure 100% she loves me through the signals that she has given me.

I am 95% almost complete to close the deal with this woman.

All I need are dates to establish a personal bond.

We communicate through pm and call but not for long conversations.

Just to ask her out for dinner and drinks :)
Abort now, high chance of BPD, damaged at the least and you don't have the experience to avoid getting mangled
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amaterasu

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Alright, thank you all you fellow djs.

I trully appreciate your advices :)
 
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