"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When people say your "Looks" make up most of your game

aiforce_juan

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lets try to narrow this down and put and end to this mess..

WHen people say "LOOKS COUNT 90% of your game" are you referring to the facial features alone or the body or both facial and body?

So.. to all the "UGLY GUYS HERE" (facial features wise)

you just need to do 3 main things to be a don juan

1. Bulk Up (physique)
2. Attitude (Confidence)
3. Your game (C+F, Kino, etc)



Sooo, if you are fat or chubby, you need to loose the weight NOW. PERIOD

When you have a nice body, the right attitude and game, your "UGLY" facial features won't matter at all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think the question is how important is it really to bulk up vs. just "being in shape"?

IE is being toned "enough" (strong arms, decent chest) or is it really important to be a body builder with huge muscles and a six pack?
 

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Have you ever seen a chick with a nice body but ugly face? I bet you've told yourself "i'd hit it cuz she has a nice body"
im sure, you've talked about this with your buddies at some point in your life
 

aiforce_juan

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Originally posted by ithero
I think the question is how important is it really to bulk up vs. just "being in shape"?

IE is being toned "enough" (strong arms, decent chest) or is it really important to be a body builder with huge muscles and a six pack?
I would say close to a body builder type physique

on a scale of 1-5.. 5 as a body builder

i'd say a 3.5 in my opinion
 
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