"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When People look at me

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they think im the kind of person who never talks, but i am a very lively person around my friends, but outside people think i dont talk
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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we all eat food said:
they think im the kind of person who never talks, but i am a very lively person around my friends, but outside people think i dont talk
Yes I've had this, people having a perception of you that's a lot different to your real self. This maybe due to how you truly were in the past and/or certain incidents where you acted differently to normal which stick out in their minds. However, it sucks, but that's their loss for not getting to know you. However being lively around your mates only does not mean you're a lively person.
 
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