"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When people have no respect for your time.

spider_007

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I HATE IT!!!!

If you say you'll be there at 11:00pm......BE THERE AT 11:00PM - OR GO F YOUR SELF!!!!!!!

I waited for a chick 45min last night.....every 10 min i got a text; "yea, give me 5min I’m almost there...." I figure i wated 10min, may as well another 5....I wated 30 min, may as well another 5...until i got pissed and took off. If you going to be late - FINE - let me know asap so i can go do some shopping or something, but don't expect me to sit in the car in front of your building for hours waiting for your unorganized ass. It's INSULTING AND DISRESPECTFULL. EEEHHHH!!!!!!!:mad:

So i let her have it yesterday - she didn't get why i was pissed and thought i was over-reacting.

I've had this issue with guy friend too. But he understood and since then, if he's late, i wait for 10min, then go on with my own ****. If he shows up and I’m around - great, if not - maybe next time.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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J. Darko

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You're typical. :crackup:


I wrote her off for the tenth time today
And practice all the things I would say
But she came over
I lost my nerve
I took her back and made her dessert

Now I know I’m being used
That’s okay man cause I like the abuse
I know she’s playing with me
That’s okay cause I got no self esteem

We make plans to go out at night
I wait till 2 then I turn out the light
All this rejection’s got me so low
If she keeps it up I just might tell her no.


Instead of driving off and never contacting her again you complained about her actions like you are her girlfriend and now you are complaining about her again on a forum like you are her girlfriend.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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1) I posted on here to get some understanding (a pat on the shoulder) from this "brotherhood" that has to deal with this same DISAPOINTING sh!t from women OR MEN.

2) I give people the opportunity to learn from their mistakes - even if i cut them off. I let her know she f-ed up, and maybe one day she'll realize the error of her ways and change for someone else. One less inconsiderate person on the planet - if not in my life.
 

Desert Fox

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lol you sound like a pushover and a little whiny b1tch wah wahh wahhh. lol you're one of the lonely caring types that likes to cuddle, i can tell.

if i met you in real life i would not respect you dude. sad sh1t, you don't even respect yourself haha what a fvckin JOKE.
 

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J. Darko said:
Instead of driving off and never contacting her again you complained about her actions like you are her girlfriend and now you are complaining about her again on a forum like you are her girlfriend.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
This.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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