If a HB is being cosy - grabbing you, hugging you; but avoids looking at your face and eye contact, how do you get around this if you are trying to go for the kiss close? Or don't you because it is a sign she is not interested?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.