When nexting begins to raise IL...

[Santos]

So this girl was going flaky on me and it didn't look like I was gonna even get a f__k out of her, so I decided to next her. Stopped calling her, texting her, ignoring hints about us getting together, etc. Now she's started to take notice and has started her games again.

She's complaining that I never call her anymore. She asks how things are going with this other girl I was dating. She asked about going out tonight and I cancelled on Monday saying I had to go to a 21st birthday. Then she says how she wants to hang out again this weekend. She wants to go out with me clubbing tomorrow I told her "maybe".

She is SLOWLY starting to come round. Last time we went clubbing we made out a little (cheated on her BF). It could possibly lead to a f__k if I play my card rights. Trouble is I need about 2 more weeks to recover from an operation on my foreskin 2 weeks ago. Also, I don't feel her IL is quite high enough to garauntee that she won't start flaking again. (A high IL level with this chick had her eating out of my hand a few months ago).

This girl seems to be an attention *****. She relies heavily on her sexual attraction to get men. She often teases me about having sex, but doesn't deliver. Tonight, on the phone she said "What if I asked you to come over and f__k me tonight, what would you say?"

I said, "I'd say: Sorry, Nicole, I have a 21st to go to tonight." LOL neghit! She couldn't believe I wouldn't accept her invitation. She asked why and I told her "There's going to be plenty of young women for me to sleep around with at the party tonight."

The whole time I was joking with her, and it was done in a light way. But it got to her.

Do I reject her invitation to go out tomorrow night? She said she'd call me tomorrow. I can see my avoiding her is raising her IL, but I don't want to be too drastic in case she just gives up.

Advice\comments\tips?

Thanks!
Santos

 

[b's nuts]

foreskin surgery? hows that? what happens if you try and fvck to early? I would say her IL sounds high enough to fvck, but avoiding her to much more definately might push her away, thats quite the predicament if you can't fvck yet, especially if she is going to be expecting it. They chase when you run, but definately sounds like she might give up after to much more.

 

[violator]

I have dealt with too many women like these to not put up with their crap anymore. Quite simply my tolerance with AW's like this one is almost nil.

She loves to be in control, so by you ignoring her she realizes that she is losing her grip on you. Once she has you, then the games begin again. It is almost an endless cycle. You pursue, she runs. You run, she pursues.

If you like the drama, then continue to play the game. Otherwise, I would do what is known as ganji games, a last ditch effort to get her to come around. That means no contact whatsoever. The idea is that she will break and eventually open up to you completely. If she has any interest in you, then she will come around. Otherwise, she will just get tired and find another AFC to prey on.

 

[Starman]

Santos Clause,

the only smart move here would be to continue to build her attraction /IL UP UP UP..until your chin foreskin heals
violator has hit it on the head, AW's are only in the mindset of raising YOUR IL..then leaving you with your c0ck in your hands..c0ckteases if u will..just send her mixed signals..act like u arent interested in her..but play the sexual card of flirting/mentally sexing her up

then when the time comes go in for the kill

 

[-dM]

Is this the old "makeout" buddy you had?
Didn't you already decide to NEXT her sorry arse?
Man, don't fall into a trap again.
Find.Some.New.Girls!!!!

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

what a ****, I'd go straight up and aks her what the hell's goin on between you two, and if you get a half assed answer then I'd next her c*nt ass. And also rember, go by her actions and not her words.