"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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when meeting two or three girls at once

dtrg

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lets say you're meeting a pair of girls or 3 for the first time. how do you guys go about the eye contact? do you hold it with one or do you go for it with all 3? if you hold it with one, which one? your target or one of her friends?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Pay attention to all of them with a little added attention to your target. If she's an AW you may consider giving her less.
 

PRMoon

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Usually if i'm meeting with or have already met more than two girls, I'll call in some support to divide up the work load. I'll still have my pick of the litter but i know that my friends are quality guys so they'll do the same for me later on down the line.
 

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Try to get on conversation to talk about you. If they start to talk about other things it's over.
 

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Spread that EC around equally if you are talking. If listening EC with whoever is speaking.

JJ
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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