When its GOOD to have ONEITIS!

[Bvbidd]

How do you survive in the real world? Seriously.

lol with dumb guys come dumb girls (even more lol), that's how he can survive. (no offense skip.)

Seriously, yeah ONE-IT-IS that likes ya back is good for your soul ya know?

 

[specialed]

been there done that...my last relationship was just this...for 7 months. but there was a time when i was sick of it...i started to take advantage of me knowing that she liked me. trust me she was hot...hottest girl i've ever approached in my life. however 7 months later, i look back and i was needy...i started to feed off her emotions...what she was feeling i was feeling. that's no way to live, more or less...you should always have some sort of guard up...there is a article on this site that deals with suffering after a relationship...you should read it and follow it.

 

[specialed]

http://www.sosuave.com/quick2/tip474.htm

dont end up like the beginning paragraph.
it's 2 weeks into the relationship...do you even know this girls full name yet? ANY relationship is better in the beginning then ANY other time in the relationship...cept possibly getting married.

 

[Production6257]

Did you meet her on the internet? :crackup:

 

[skip2mylou781]

Did you meet her on the internet? :crackup:

yes lol

once again internet proof that there r hot sweet and basically normal girls out there - shes 21 years old by the way, so not totally a youngin like im used to

 

[KillaCam]

however its SHE whos caused it:

That comment worries me. It is not her that caused your one-itis, you master your own emotions. This one-itis feeling isn't her implementing it, it's your reaction to what she is, a big difference.

Saying "One-itis is bad" defeats the purpose of having individual situations, as who knows, somewhere along the line, a positive may come out of it. But, the reason one-itis is frowned upon as an unhealthy act by everyone is because that's what it is, unhealthy.

One-itis is a development. It's a steady growth in someones mind that works like a cancer, slowly killing off things such as common-sense and your killer-instinct with women. Just like a cancer, it can be killed off if detected early, but if left to grow, it will kill you instead. Get out of this zone.

3)we text hell knows how much every single day, SHE always initiates, and pretty much ALL of the texts are along the line of "hey sweetie i miss u, being with u is amazing" (all of HER texts that is), so naturally i reply with the truth tellin her shes amazing too bla bla bla

You know this kills game. So tone down on this heavily. It gets stale incredibly quick, and constant interaction of this nature will destroy any edge of mystery you have over a woman. Supposedly you have a good game with the girls, and i'll take your word for that, so you should know doing #3 here is a step in the wrong direction.

All I can say is tone down your affection buddy. She's just another woman

 

[Hound_of_Love]

2 weeks? The good oneitis? I don't know where to start.

Yes I do. After 2 weeks a chick doesn't even have to reserve the right to do a complete 180 and lose interest. That, right there, is a slippery slope.

Personally I say all oneitis is bad. If you're not prepared to cut and run from anything in your life, should the need arise, then you are always set up for a fall - you always have something to lose. That's my personal philosophy and may not suit everyone, but the principle is sound.

 

[[S]alvatore]

I thought you said you were leaving? And it was mentioned on more than one occasion. I don't have a problem with you, but you haven't stuck to your word.

 

[skip2mylou781]

hey guys look at my other thread - i think theres a perfect example of oneitis there and it makes MY situation seem like its just "puppy love" or something, aka NOT oneitis

 

[skip2mylou781]

UPDATE:

spent nite at the hotel, i fvcked her 3 times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YEA oneitis RULES

 

[Gangster Of Love]

It is only GOOD to have ONEITIS with your wife when you are MARRIED!