"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When it's at a stage where she's looking down avoiding eye contact

pikachu69

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If you mess up with a girl from time to time acting AFC and if you see her on campus and she looks down on purpose in order to avoid any sort of eye contact and keeps on walking even if she's coming in from behind you. Is this a common occurence for you guys?

I've noticed that whether I've acted really afc or just a little they still do this stupid stunt that infuriates me where it seems really immature but gets the point across. I'm not going to talk to them but they seem to presume I will. Should you respond to this and make a comment or would that show that it's affected you?

Something like a neg like 'you know it's not very mature to pretend to look down when you're walking, u mght walk into a tree lol. i'm not going to talk to you.' is that sufficient?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ThatMysteriousGuy

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pikachu69 said:
If you mess up with a girl from time to time acting AFC and if you see her on campus and she looks down on purpose in order to avoid any sort of eye contact and keeps on walking even if she's coming in from behind you. Is this a common occurence for you guys?

I've noticed that whether I've acted really afc or just a little they still do this stupid stunt that infuriates me where it seems really immature but gets the point across. I'm not going to talk to them but they seem to presume I will. Should you respond to this and make a comment or would that show that it's affected you?

Something like a neg like 'you know it's not very mature to pretend to look down when you're walking, i'm not going to talk to you.' is that sufficient?
No. Ignore her completely. The very last thing you want is to have other girls around you and have them notice that a woman is going out of her way to do that sort of thing.

Really. Look at the big picture. When other women see that sort of thing they'll automatically put a bunch of red flags in their minds about you before you can even open your mouth.

Edit her out of your mind completely. This is an absolute.

EDIT: Saw your post below but I'm out of post limit soon.
Don't worry about what you are "supposed to do", do what is best for you. She doesn't exist anymore.
 

pikachu69

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ThatMysteriousGuy said:
No. Ignore her completely. The very last thing you want is to have other girls around you and have them notice that a woman is going out of her way to do that sort of thing.

Really. Look at the big picture. When other women see that sort of thing they'll automatically put a bunch of red flags in their minds about you before you can even open your mouth.

Edit her out of your mind completely. This is an absolute.

well sometimes women aren't around when this happens so that's not an issue, but should you respond to it? or just carry on saying hi?

i know NC is necessary at that point but if you do bump into them (which is common if you're both on campus) you're suppose to say hi which normal otherwise you'll seem bitter, i know after saying hi a few times and not talking she'll realise you wont speak to her but it's a bit of a pain to be honest.
 

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Move to a bigger college. I went to school with 50,000 people, and if I acted afc, I never saw her again anyway.
 
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