"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When it feels like you are being ignored

tactic

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What do you do?

Besides "ignore them back".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thebsharp

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Act like you dont give a sh!t and just go abour your happy day.
 

jonny football hero

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Get up and start morris dancing.................8o)
 

strong like bull

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you realize that the majority of women are worthless anyways, and your happiness or success in life does not depend on them.

if its a fb/str, it doesnt matter anyways. rotate her down to the bottom and let others try to impress you.

if its your ltr girlfriend who you actually care about... she shouldnt be ignoring you. perhaps her interest is fading? we all know that women will go out of their way to stay responsive of you, if the interest is there. the last thing shed want to do is blow her chance with such a great catch! she should understand that your time and energy is extremely valuable; and if she doesnt stop with these bull**** childish games shes going to miss out on something incredible.

-SLB
 
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