when is the second date

[scorpio king]

Hey guys I had a date with this girl. I used c&f successfully, I smiled a lot and I didnt smiled at all. ( used variation), kept it cool, thought to myself "I am sexual, relaxed, and in control"(from a thread I've read one time and now I am dying to read it again because this way of thinking is the best for me). She ended up curling my arms and started leaning towards me which I in return gave her some kino on my own by placing my arm on her shoulder.


My question is when do I ask for a second date? Its been 3 days for now since our date and I've just texted her once because I dont want to appear needy.

also, neg hits do work!!!!!!!

 

[nishbuk]

Question: "When is the second date?"

Answer: "Whenever you tell her it is."

 

[scorpio king]

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I mean what is the time frame of asking for a second date with respect to the second date. I mean its not immediately after the first date is it?

 

[nishbuk]

In the few relationships that I've had where the ST part worked out really well, I've always stuck to one cal per week to set up a date, and one date a week for at least two months...Sometime in the second month, perhaps you can more phone/IM contact than once a week...