When is the Limit of Too Much Kino/Teasing?
THAT'S FOR YOU TO FIND OUT!
There's no such thing as a limit of kino/teasing for every girl because they are all different and it depends on how you go about the kino.
What you should focus on is PUSHING HER LIMITS!
Just an example let's say this is a date:
You start with light touches on the arm. You keep on doing this to get her warmed up to you touching her. You get no negative reaction from her and no defense mechanism is activated in her so you're good. Your touching seems natural to her.
Later on you then start getting more aggressive by putting your hand in her arm and leaving it there for a few seconds. No negative reaction so you're cool.
later on you start getting more aggressive, putting both hands on her shoulder, touching her thighs, patting her tights, legs, putting your arm around her waist etc.
Next thing you know she starts getting hot and starts touching you back! She sits on your lap, hugs you, hits you on the arm etc. Then you know the game is on!
So basically you have to keep pushing her limits to see how far you can take it. Some guys are so good with kino and communicating sexual energy that they can bang any woman they just met just by enough kino.
They key to me is to start with light touches then start pushing the limits. Not only will you make her comfortable with your touching
but you will be comfortable touching her. I noticed that starting with anything besides light touching at first i was too "predictable' rather than natural and it ended up making me look creepy rather than natural. In your mind you're thinking "im going to put both my hands on her shoulders" rather than you doing kino naturally and progressively without even thinking about it.
If you think about it before you do it it will come out planned and will backfire. Your kino needs to look and come out unscripted and out of nowhere. That's why build up slowly from light touches to more aggressive stuff and it will all seem more natural to you and her.