"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When is the best to time to get PHYSICAL?

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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I have no clue when is the best to time to make out a girl that I just scored recently. But I know that too early and too late is wrong. You see, I'm 21 and I'm a virgin. I feel really behind in life because of this and it always bothers me. Now I finally get a great opportunity (she's hot by the way) I don't want to screw this moment of getting laid. So when is the best time- 2nd, 3rd or 4th date? And is location really important? She lives in a dorm and I live with my parents.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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T Money

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Just fvckin lean over and kiss her dude. it's not brain science. Wait until you're both sitting at the bar drinking a beer, or if you're both standing up and you guys are flirting like she's kino'ing you just lean in close and touch your faces together a little bit. Then if it feels right, just kiss.

Or if you haven't done ANY physical yet, try putting your hand on the small of her back, like if you're following her out the door and you're walking through a crowd.
 

Turncoat

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It's simple. Like T-Money said, 'just lean over and kiss her'. Look, i don't care if you two are in a party crowded with people, you can always kiss a girl anywhere you're at. At a party, grab her and lead her to the bathroom, for example ;)

I've kissed women on streets, dark alleys, university lounges, behind doors, whatever comes my way, ALL WTHIN THE FIRST DATE. Now, sex doesn't come that quickly all the time, some girls will absolutly refuse to sleep with you if they don't feel an emotional connection while some girls will not sleep with you because they feel an emotional connection. Don't ask why, we have a better chance of time-tavelling than we have of comprehending the female mind.

What led me to get away with quick sex with minimal effort is INNER GAME. You should start building up your self-esteem, masculinity, confidence and belief system. Then sex will come automatically. Feel free to personal msg me, i'll answer any questions you might want to ask .
 
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