"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some people will tell you to always move on but what what good am I as a PUA trainer if I can't come up with something situation specific. So I'm starting to work on this specific subject extensively. I already started working on some notes and directions.

For starters, here's a sample of where I'm going for one-case specific situation

- if you didn't have sex with her yet you find her on your mind more than the last 5 or so girls you been with you can officially deem this girl a plague on your mind. So what you going to do about it? You need to realize that this is just pure psychology, your minds wondering about the possibilities of what you didn't make happen.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oneitis. This is how you know when you need to improve something in your game.
 
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OamImrsNemo said:
Oneitis. This is how you know when you need to improve something in your game.
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No no no, I'm not talking about that. Believe it or not I've worked with very established PUAs who got everything down pat, yet they do ask me about one girl that can't seem to slip there mind. Some people refuse to completely throw somebody out of there life if they see value in them. I'm almost a committed man, I love the game and when I met it I married it but I been raised to show appreciation and to reciprocate. There's a proactive woman in my life who has proved she is beyond capable of being my #1 and is a fun, successful person with goals. This girl looks like Eva Mendes, yet she trains for MMA - she also takes a hospitality class. I haven't known her for a year but clearly she's bettered herself in the same manner a PUA would
 
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Idk. I'd be very very careful. Sounds like oneitis to me but I may be wrong. Just be careful haha and good luck!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Man, HELL NO!!!!! Mostly brings bad to you even if she comes around at all.

I did this last year to a woman I loved and still do, but she came back around only to play serious mind games. Example of her fun little games: Right after a romantic encounter, she told me she had an abortion with my child, Found out she had been lying about what she was up to during our several month hiatus not seeing each other. Continued playing the same crap she always did.

It did not take me long to halt all contact with her and it has been a year since we have spoken. There is something that tells me when her fun and falsely perceived value of herself runs out, she will be back for me.

Do not do it!!!
 
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I've met girls from the past. Everyone is probably right, it's best to leave it, move on... But whatever, if you feel like asking her out... just start chatting with her online, and then say "we should have a catch up".

I was watching some stand up last night... and it's like you feel ahhhhhh I've gotta get rid of this girl and you finish her. It's great at first :D Freedom... then after a few days it's just you and your thoughts, so you ring her up "I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU... oh.....ok.... you think it was for the best? You gotta meet someone tonight? yeah, bye" :(
 
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