When is it too much kino?

[SamRi72]

I am on week five of sarging and I got concerned today. I was using kino on my most reactive prospect and one of her friends next to her ****blocked me by saying "Does he always touch her like that?" My kino always makes her laugh, smile, or attack me playfully, but I'm starting to worry that other people will start seeing me as a perv instead of being jealous. Is there such thing as too much kino if I'm not getting any negative feedback from her?

A sidenote I forgot to mention, my hands are always cold. I have no idea why. Is there anyway I can raise the natural temperature of my hands? Should I just wear gloves all the time? (Biker gloves are popular at my school).

 

[Kev07]

there really is never too much kino, bad kino, yes, too much? no

 

[nicenomore]

there really is never too much kino, bad kino, yes, too much? no

totally true..there's never too much kino , bad kino , definately.

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http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall315.htm

 

[SamRi72]

Things I have done:
Playing with her hair (She has really curly hair and it is fun)
Touching her arm (She wears a sweatshirt so she can't tell how cold my hands are)
Putting my hands over her eyes when I'm neg hitting her about vision
other random stuff

See she's Vietnamese and though she can speak English really well now, I still use it for neg hits and playing with her words which frustrates her and she makes a fist at me and play hits me a lot. My rapport responses are almost all making fun of what she says (I'm a comedian) and it drives her crazy in a good way. She once mentioned that she had a bf after her friend warned me in front of her (I was picking her up to "carry her to the library"), but she has yet to even mention him since.

Is picking up girls jokingly a good move? I was carrying around a random freshy I do some acting with today. Just a short distance of course.

 

[Plec07]

Is picking up girls jokingly a good move? I was carrying around a random freshy I do some acting with today. Just a short distance of course.

I think picking them up is great, Lately almost everytime a girl has come up to hug me I've picked her up and moved her a few feet or so. sometimes with a reason and sometimes without.

What I mean is if a girl walks up to me and hugs me as I'm walking down the hallway I'll say "Hey you" pick her up, in the hug, and turn around then put her back down. Then continue along to class. This way I've taken control of the frame, shown physical strength and sort of negged her by showing that my destination is more important than she is to me. Most of the time they'll come back beside me to try and start convo again.

 

[SamRi72]

I think picking them up is great, Lately almost everytime a girl has come up to hug me I've picked her up and moved her a few feet or so. sometimes with a reason and sometimes without.

What I mean is if a girl walks up to me and hugs me as I'm walking down the hallway I'll say "Hey you" pick her up, in the hug, and turn around then put her back down. Then continue along to class. This way I've taken control of the frame, shown physical strength and sort of negged her by showing that my destination is more important than she is to me. Most of the time they'll come back beside me to try and start convo again.

LMAO. Brilliant, freaking brilliant!

 

[Plec07]

Just glad I could help

 

[rottweiler_273]

AHAA I was gonna leave a thread about picking girls up and dude trust me its a good idea, unless you drop them, there are 3 girls who are about 8's that I have started hanging around with. One girl keeps going to others "Let him show you how strong he is by picking you up" When those girls refuse she comes up and says "pick me up" I do this and she like "WOOO" then hugs me for about 10 or 15 minutes and actually kissed me yeterday. In short GOOD IDEA

 

[Jakeman]

Things I have done:
Playing with her hair (She has really curly hair and it is fun)
Touching her arm (She wears a sweatshirt so she can't tell how cold my hands are)
Putting my hands over her eyes when I'm neg hitting her about vision
other random stuff

See she's Vietnamese and though she can speak English really well now, I still use it for neg hits and playing with her words which frustrates her and she makes a fist at me and play hits me a lot. My rapport responses are almost all making fun of what she says (I'm a comedian) and it drives her crazy in a good way. She once mentioned that she had a bf after her friend warned me in front of her (I was picking her up to "carry her to the library"), but she has yet to even mention him since.

Is picking up girls jokingly a good move? I was carrying around a random freshy I do some acting with today. Just a short distance of course.

Oh God. XD

 

[The Shocker]

I think picking them up is great, Lately almost everytime a girl has come up to hug me I've picked her up and moved her a few feet or so. sometimes with a reason and sometimes without.

What I mean is if a girl walks up to me and hugs me as I'm walking down the hallway I'll say "Hey you" pick her up, in the hug, and turn around then put her back down. Then continue along to class. This way I've taken control of the frame, shown physical strength and sort of negged her by showing that my destination is more important than she is to me. Most of the time they'll come back beside me to try and start convo again.

That's true game. Props.

 

[SamRi72]

Great Tupac quote there, the Shocker.

Skills I need to work on:
Peacocking- tough to do when the school has uniforms. Any ideas?
Push/Pull method

 

[(JJ)]

i was kinda wonderin about this too, but with pda's more than anything. do yall think theres a line you shouldn't cross as far as that goes... like at the movies or bowling or anywhere. I kinda feel like my friends and/or random strangers are staring at us whenever i try to either kiss or hug or whatever with my gf.

 

[Surprisement]

Just thought I'd pop in and give a tip for peacocking under (an arguably retarded) dress-code.

For me, I'll usually wear a blazer over a normal t-shirt (solid color). None of the faculty seem to catch on. Of course, that's my own style; Other than that, it's all about your own creativity.

Also, (if your dresscode requires a "collared" shirt) you could actually take an old shirt, cut the collar off, sew up the frayed edges so it lays over your shoulders comfortably, and put that under a normal t-shirt whenever you need to be in-dresscode

 

[Jack-Torrance]

LMAO. Brilliant, freaking brilliant!

Yes I think Plec is the next David DeAngelo... He's some kind of genius at this sort of thing...

 

[Plec07]

Yes I think Plec is the next David DeAngelo... He's some kind of genius at this sort of thing...

What me? No of course not, I'm just a spotty lil' teenager with too much time on his hands so I analyse ever social interaction I make or see happen lol .

It just takes practise. You learn to break down the dynamics of everything. I treat social behaviour like I treat improving a song i've written. I break it down into each piece, drums, bass, guitar, keys. Analyse the pros and cons. Figure out how to remove the cons and then fit it all back together.

Even now I still make mistakes because I fail to spot problems with an approach to a situation I havn't been in before while I'm out with a girl. If I had the time I have here before replying to posts, in the field I would have shagged 100 girls by now. As would many other people on here. Although my mind is starting to act in the right way naturally from going out and practising.

It's like Tyler Durdon said: You can learn 100 times as much about being a PUA from 1 night in the field than you can from reading 100 different books on being a PUA (or something along those lines lol)

 

[Infraction]

Plec, great advice.
But remember, there will allways be someone better than you .

 

[Plec07]

Lol I hope there will be or I'll lose me drive and become an overweight flabby object whos existance is purely to make ass-indentations in couches. Only problem is they'll be such big indentations that other people would just get stuck in them till they starved to death. So I would get fired from that job, become depressed and eventually commit suicide buy having a giant couch dropped on me. Only that will fail coz my layer of fat would make it simply bounce off me, making me yet more depressed.

(As you can tell I'm a bit bored right now lol)

Just so I don't get flamed for making a useless post I'll add that it's true if there is nobody better than you then you'll lose your drive. When people started telling me I was the best guitarist in my year, and the year above I lost my drive to carry on learning and didn't really improve much over the next few months till I realised my playing was getting sloppy.

 

[The Shocker]

What me? No of course not, I'm just a spotty lil' teenager with too much time on his hands so I analyse ever social interaction I make or see happen lol .

It just takes practise. You learn to break down the dynamics of everything. I treat social behaviour like I treat improving a song i've written. I break it down into each piece, drums, bass, guitar, keys. Analyse the pros and cons. Figure out how to remove the cons and then fit it all back together.

Even now I still make mistakes because I fail to spot problems with an approach to a situation I havn't been in before while I'm out with a girl. If I had the time I have here before replying to posts, in the field I would have shagged 100 girls by now. As would many other people on here. Although my mind is starting to act in the right way naturally from going out and practising.

It's like Tyler Durdon said: You can learn 100 times as much about being a PUA from 1 night in the field than you can from reading 100 different books on being a PUA (or something along those lines lol)

Another good post.

 

[nicenomore]

Here's the Tyler D quote: You learn more about pickup in one night of approaching women than in a lifetime of reading books

 

[SamRi72]

For a great post and quoting Tyler Durden, Plec just won at life.