"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When is it time to go for the kiss?

kingman

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When is it time to go for the kiss?

When do you now that enough connection has been built?
( how do the girl act when it is time /enough attraction built to go for the kiss?)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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eyedea40

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kingman said:
When is it time to go for the kiss?

When do you now that enough connection has been built?
( how do the girl act when it is time /enough attraction built to go for the kiss?)

Good question.. I think every girl is different, I read the signes, touching is big, playing with hair, going out of her way to get close to you. Feel it out if your close to her, try a simple shoulder rub or lite touching. I like to move in real smooth and gentle. I am so good at feeling it out, that it just seems second nature to me.
 
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