"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When is it okay to pay for excort

GeoMan

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Just got off LTR and have decided to bite down and focus on work, school, and working ut for the rest of the year. I also got my license suspended. No time to invest n meeting and dating new woman. I can smash girls that im not really into but rather not. Is it a good idea to hire an escort to kill some sexual frustration?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PipeDope

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Never have I paid for sex. Unless you consider using gas, buying dinner, etc. I think deep down you will make yourself feel worse about the lack of sex by paying for it due to thinking " I just paid for sex, I can't even get it without money?". I would continue working on yourself and do cold approaches on the street/grocery store etc. it can be done
 

Thorninmyside

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Whenever the f*ck you want really, but it's a good thing not to WANT/NEED so often that it makes you quit trying to be a man who can get women on real terms.

Invest in your own awesomeness too, not just a hooker's life. In asia I've picked up bar girls for company when I've had last minute flakes or there's no pickup action to be had, but keep focused on being an awesome guy that attracts women to him.
 
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