"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When is a good time to ask a girl to a dance?

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crazyman11

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My school has our winter ball in january, when would be a good time to ask? Would it be too early? Should i ask the girl to the dance now, or just ask her out to a date?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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crazyman11

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So i should just go ahead and ask her at school next week?

I could already tell that she likes me, she always sneaks glances at me in class, laughs at anything i say/do and hit's me while saying a "You're hekka funny!" I just wanna know if i should ask her out on a date, or ask her to the dance
 
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If you can pull it off, take her out on a date on the night of the dance. Say somethin like "Yeah it would be alot cooler to go to (insert date here) than some stupid winter ball!"
 
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Oh, i can drive too, but i'm not supposed to drive anyone but myself. my car is pretty damn ghetto too('85 diesel). Would it really matter, or should i just pick her up in it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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