"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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when I get some commitment

window

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ok you are with a new girl a few dates in whatever and she sais she'll give you sex once there is more commitment so how do you deal with this ? i.e ensure that the sex starts but at the same time dodge her requirement. My guess is you bring up the issue and just say look if were not having sex then we'll have to part ways.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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reBourne

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It's a sh*t test. Ignore it and keep plowing through. She won't be able to resist the attraction if it's there. Don't pay attention to what she says, pay attention to her actions.

PS. Be playful and ****y to her serious responses or completely ingnore them.
 

iqqi

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Well, hell. If you are actually conversing about it using words, then this is the route I advise:

You: When we having some sex???!
Her: When you give me some commitment, fool!
You: Alright, we boyfriend and girlfriend now.

Sexy music time.

After:

You: Hey baby, I got to end this thang. It's ain't you sweet toot. It's me.

Then run.

K? K.
 

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iqqi said:
Well, hell. If you are actually conversing about it using words, then this is the route I advise:

You: When we having some sex???!
Her: When you give me some commitment, fool!
You: Alright, we boyfriend and girlfriend now.

Sexy music time.

After:

You: Hey baby, I got to end this thang. It's ain't you sweet toot. It's me.

Then run.

K? K.
Rule 101 of Understanding Women - Ignore advice from Women (sorry iqqi!)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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speed dawg

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She's getting too comfortable with you and you're becoming more and more AFC.

Next time she asks you when you're going to commit to her, joke with her and say I can't right now until break it off with the other 2. It's all in the tone and the way you say this. Don't be all serious and sh1t.
 

vatoloco

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Define "commitment." What exactly does she want?
 

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Commitment to a woman = her taking control, you basically handing your testcules to her.

dont be fooled, its a simple word but has masculine and feminine meanings
 

vatoloco

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betheman said:
Commitment to a woman = her taking control, you basically handing your testcules to her.
Not necessarily.

It could be that she's afraid of being a "Pump & Dump" and wants reassurance that he's gonna be around or it could very well be the case of she wanting to run the show and literally control him via sex.

Hence why I wanna know what exactly she means by "commitment." window, you have some homework to do...
 

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Dear Window,
"so how do you deal with this ?",well you promise them the Earth without any specific promises.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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backbreaker

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fvck other women.

the option for no sex should never even be on the table.

the only time a woman can play that card is when she knows she has you by the balls. take your balls and put them in another broads mouth and see how she sticks with the no commitment BS
 
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