When Grinding On A Girl...

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

For all you awesome high school dancers, when you approach a girl to dance with her and then grind upon her, should you be getting hard. In some cases, I usually do and if I don't, I put the extra effort in and make her work harder, in which I'll get one. Once in a while, the girl will walk away and we'll grind the front to front. I don't know why, but are you suppose to get one or not? And when you approach a girl, should you tap on her waist or shoulder to get her attention??

 

[gmillar]

Tap her on the waist, but not with your hand

I don't think it's out of line to have a boner, what the fvck does she expect, rubbing her ass on your ****?

 

[KnockoutJM]

I was actually listening to Maxim Radio a few weeks ago talk about this. They had girls call in and tell them, and interviewed a few. The girls all said that their goal in grinding a guy is to get him hard. But then some said they leave if he gets hard, and others like it when hes hard because it makes them feel like they are attractive, and like they accomplished something. My advice from my experiences would be dont worry. If she is attractive you will get hard, and just go with it

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

Well what if I don't know if she likes it or not. In all seriousness though, I get pretty big and I'll go up and down so she feels the whole thing. All 7 inches of it... I mean, they are attractive so what do they expect? Do you think its right, and why would some of them leave?

 

[EdHunter]

Well what if I don't know if she likes it or not. In all seriousness though, I get pretty big and I'll go up and down so she feels the whole thing. All 7 inches of it... I mean, they are attractive so what do they expect? Do you think its right, and why would some of them leave?

If you can't tell if she's liking it, think about it this way: This girl is rubbing her body against me in such a way as to get me aroused. If she can tell, and she is still grinding with you...safe to assume she's down with it.

 

[The Shocker]

Girls who are willing to grind with you are willing to feel your boner against their azz.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

Some people say though only guys who don't get a lot of action only get boners when the girl puts her ass with your junk. A lot of them say you shouldn't because its only ass and nothing more. I get them 3/4 percent of the time, and the girls know how to shake it. When the girl walks away, which has only happened a few times, I can;t understand why...Should the guy really get one because it makes sense he should--you know?

 

[Skilla_Staz]

It all depends on your sex drive. The higher it is, the more easily aroused.


Sometimes I get hard just rubbin on a girl. Sometimes it takes a hell of a lot more.

 

[Docs]

Ok. Girl grinds on c0ck.
Cool. What's next?
Fvcking close the chick, via a makeout?
Cool. What's next?
Turn makeout on scourching hot.
Cool. What's next?
Take the bytch home.
Cool. What's next?


Get the point. She's grinding on you, don't be stupid and let it end with nothing. Escalate.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

When should I escalate--during or after the song? and what are song good ways to do so??

Escalation is what I have a huge problem with--the prom is coming up and I would love to escalate things with me and my date--any helpful tips on this subject while we are at it? Thanks.

 

[Docs]

You escalate when you want. With a random, I do it after about half a song. If she's dancing with you, you have the right to start exploring her arms, her waist, her legs with your hands....

...and if she's still with it, you start to draw her in closer, or take control of her hand and turn her around or whatever. (I tend to do this after I start necking her, as a prelude to a very close face to face)

 

[Kev07]

some girls WILL get freaked out, but what do they expect rubbing their ass on your crotch?

now if a guy grinded on you (by accident i hope) and you get a boner, then we have a problem

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

So in the middle of the song, you turn the chick around and dance face to face with her? I don't understand how that is escalting?

So its perfectly normal to get hard when grinding on a girl? Why would some leave if they start to feel something they enjoy?

What are some other ways to escalate when you are grindin on a girl?

 

[The Shocker]

hands around waist, pull her closer, rub her up and down, grab azz, kiss, makeout. In that order.

 

[guayaballer]

Ok. Girl grinds on c0ck.
Cool. What's next?
Fvcking close the chick, via a makeout?
Cool. What's next?
Turn makeout on scourching hot.
Cool. What's next?
Take the bytch home.
Cool. What's next?


Get the point. She's grinding on you, don't be stupid and let it end with nothing. Escalate.

haha nice! seems rather simple once you think about it

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

I love to grind and when I see the girl I am taking to the prom, no guys really grind on her. Once in a while, her guy friends only will, but thats rarely. She is really hot, but at dances, I'd focus my attention on other girls and grind with other girls, and not with my prom date.

Since she doesn't dance that way, (although I am not sure), how do I show her thats the way I would like her to dance. I want to be able to grind with her all night and be able to dance with her, although I never focused my attention on her? Should I just grav her waist and make with it to show her thats what I expect from her??

 

[DJVladdy]

Lol why wouldnt it be good? This one chick sticks out in my mind, from couple weekends ago at a club. I just took her hand, we start dancing. I obviously go hard, she was liking it and doing some crazy sh!t. She was at least a 9 in anyone's view and as we were grinding like 5 10 mins later she took my hand and put it down closer to her pu$$y so i could finger her... so dont worry about anything - its a hot girl grinding her juicy a$$ on ur d1ck - its only natural and sexual to get hard because of it.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

Also, when I was grinding on a girl, my hands were on her thighs and then she put her hands holding mine on her thighs--I did not know what she wanted,so I moved my hands then put them a littlie higher in which she held them again...What do you think she was tryin to do??

Also, I still don't understand it but after every song I never have more than once dance with each girl. I get tons of dances with a lot of girls, how do I get many dances with one girl? i would like to be able to dance multiple times with one girl, but never tend to--either I walk away or they do...

Also, how do you escalate while you are grinding? Still don't understand how you start to make out with her when your facing her back?

 

[Upthere]

Also, how do you escalate while you are grinding? Still don't understand how you start to make out with her when your facing her back?

Turn her around. Maybe start on the neck, turn her around and start makin out.

When I read your post I got a funny visual, lol.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

Thing is, I had never danced with this girl and I don't want to creep her out pulling a boner on the first dance of the night at the prom. I seriously want to make a move on her and this is my chance. I mean I tend to get huge and I don't want to scare her off. Can anyone persuade me how I could benefit from her feeling me hard when I am grinding on her?


I mean what is she thinking when she feels someone get hard? It's just ass and nothing more, but it does pleasure me...I don't see how some girls get creeped out by this...