"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When girls use the "Gay" topic to bust on you and break your balls

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We've all heard of the girls calling guys gay that have no interest
in them as some sort of defense mechanism...

but what are we to make of the girls using that card to bust on you
when they think you want to f*ck them and they clearly know you
are not gay?

Seems to me like its just some sort of sh*t test to try to break you down.

Just looking for some discussion on this topic. I'm sure a lot of us have seen this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That roughly translates into "This guy isn't eating out of my hand?, maybe i'm not attractive." The woman in question will treat ppl like sht shoot men down in front of her friends and than call YOU gay for not liking her. I mean she's so attractive how could any straight guy NOT want her.
 
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If she said to you , ur gay , just agree , tell her yes im gay :)

thats just another **** test , by telling her ur gay ur passing it :)

and ofc she knows ur not
 
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st_99 said:
We've all heard of the girls calling guys gay that have no interest
in them as some sort of defense mechanism...

but what are we to make of the girls using that card to bust on you
when they think you want to f*ck them and they clearly know you
are not gay?

Seems to me like its just some sort of sh*t test to try to break you down.

Just looking for some discussion on this topic. I'm sure a lot of us have seen this.
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I am not sure what context you have in mind...

1. She's interested in you and you're not escalating fast enough, so she is jokes to move things along?
I have not problem with this, just means it's on and now.

2. She's not interested in you and is just being a b!tch.
I haven't been in this situation yet and don't plan to. Would be very disrespectful if someone is not interested in you and says this.
 
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