"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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something ive noticed about girls in high school, is that they are all like, serious gossips, and of course, one of the HB's i was trying to get with, was overheard talking about me with some of our mutual friends (all girls) and they were saying that i was ****y and arrogant and that i think theres no woman good enough for me...


do i need to go back and read the bible or something to learn to not be ****y and arrogant? or is it just that girls do this and i need to accept that if i joke with girls in a C+F manner they are going to say this kind of thing to eachother?

furthermore, if its the 2nd part, what does one say to a girl if she says straight out 'your so arrogant' or 'your so ****y' ?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by shagnscoob
furthermore, if its the 2nd part, what does one say to a girl if she says straight out 'your so arrogant' or 'your so ****y' ?
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This is perfect! Ask 'em out on the spot! That'll shut 'em up, cuz it's obvious they're interested, else they wouldn't be complaining about your "high standards", since they wouldn't care anyways if they didn't like you.
 
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Any attention is good attention, bud. If they're talking about you, it means you're interesting. Keep doing what you're doing.
 
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Listen to yourself man, you dont have the time to be thinking about **** like this.

While you are out there living an awesome fun-filled life, they will be there complaining about you. Who gives a ****.
 
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Originally posted by Drowning
Any attention is good attention, bud. If they're talking about you, it means you're interesting. Keep doing what you're doing.
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What he said.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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not any attention is good attention. If I were to put down others so people look at you, that would be bad attention. My two cents would be to show a softer side. (If you feel your C&F isn't working,, but take into account that most people aren't used to confident people being ****y) I'm not saying turn into a b!tch and cry on her shoulder but.... here.... this post says it best :
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=37719
Good Luck
 
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If every second of every interaction you have with a particular girl you are "tough." C+F, carefree and confident, and unbending. Then they will start to wonder IF you have a soft side.

This is the PERFECT time to ask one of them out - their interest in finding out about you will drive them to be GOOD dates. While you are on the date keep up the C+F VERBALLY but physically be a perfect gentleman. Open doors, make "soft" [non threatening] eyecontact and kino her with a "soft" [soothing] touch. This will confuse her even more and she'll love it. Kiss her.

After you kiss her or on your 2nd date... break down for a few min or so and dont b C+F. Be sincere, tell her you had a great time, and you think shes a neat person. By opening up you make her feel SPECIAL because only she saw it - noone else @ school knows about it! When you make girls feel SPECIAL wonderful things happen :)

GL have fun use condoms
 
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GIRL 1: He's so ****y.
GIRL 2: Yeah, he's a real arrogant guy.
GIRL 1: He thinks he's the greatest.
GIRL 2: He doesn't think any girl is good enough for him.
YOU: So which one of you ladies wants to try and prove me wrong?
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
GIRL 1: He's so ****y.
GIRL 2: Yeah, he's a real arrogant guy.
GIRL 1: He thinks he's the greatest.
GIRL 2: He doesn't think any girl is good enough for him.
YOU: So which one of you ladies wants to try and prove me wrong?
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sadly i wasnt there :cool:
 
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Originally posted by shagnscoob
sadly i wasnt there :cool:
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Uhh..what?!?!?!1
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This reminds me of a time not too long ago...

Girlfriend: You're not the greatest alright? Stop acting like you're better than everyone else because you're not.

Me: Said the girl who is hopelessly in love with me.

Anyways, people talking about you means they are comparing themselves to you or someone else to you. Not always a good thing.
 
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