"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When girls start to talk about other guys?

intrextrovert

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Sometimes this has been happening recently, i'm chilling with girls (most of the time not even ones im going for), and one of them will start talking to me about another guy. Usually I change the subject or tell them to talk to someone else about it or something to that effect. What should I be doing if they do this/to prevent this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Five To One

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Say nothing and turn your body away from her and look around the room like your looking for something else to do until she notices what shes doing wrong.
Usually you will get a playful hit from the girl. At this point you can give her sheet for talking about something she shouldnt be talking about. Keep it lighthearted though, dont say "wtf do you think your doing." Say "oh wow that was really interesting" or something sarcastic.
 

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"OMG that was the coolest f'in story Ive ever heard in my life.Can you tell it again,do you have time?"

OR

She gets through telling you how one guy does something then you say "I totally know how you feel.One of my friends _____ says does stuff like that to me when we hangout".I dunno just a quick example on top of my head but Im basically saying just mention another girl's name and just do exactly what she did.

If you really wanna amp it up,while shes talking or shortly after shes done,look at your phone frustrated and say to yourself "oh man" and if she asks you whats up just say "This girl keeps texting me to come over again to her house but she lives too far away and its frustrating sometimes". < I wouldnt use that at all its just a crazy message to do when she goes over-the-top with her conversations to you about how guys adore her.
 

mrjoe815

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pretend like you don't care
she's probably doing it to see you're reaction

if you act like it doesn't phase you, then she'll be intrigued

PROMISE
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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