When girls show you no trust.

[Healer]

When a girl shows you no trust, even after a month of being together, Is it time to next her and continue the search for a better PRIMARY, or would you confront her with it?

If you confront her, are you giving up anything in the cat and mouse game of relationships?

 

[Legend]

i would call her out on it....on her response, decide where you want to take your next step.

Dont be afraid of ending things...hell man if you cant trust a girl and she does'nt let you trust her, why bother when there are so many chicks that are willing to put a little effort in.

Good luck man

 

[squirrels]

In what way does she not "trust" you?

Trust is an interpretation of a set of behaviors. What are these behaviors? From this, we could better analyze.

 

[seulaxplaya]

i was with a girl for a year and half and she still didnt trust me after i screwed up after week one. but u know what who cares. tell the girl look u either trust me or leave. plain and simple. also her insecurity may mean she is hidding something by making u feel guilty? ever thought of that?

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Originally posted by squirrels
In what way does she not "trust" you?

Trust is an interpretation of a set of behaviors. What are these behaviors? From this, we could better analyze.

This maybe part of it...but...IMO, trust isn't how she interpretates your set of behaviors, rather, her trust in you can also be associated in the amount of security she has in herself.

If she's insecure, doesn't trust you, your friends, your lifestyle, then, you have bigger issues to worry about than bedding this chick - like your car being keyed, her going to your work enraged and jealous, or her stalking you.

Personally, I never LTR an insecure chick. I don't suplicate my behaviors to satisfy her insecurities. I've done this in the past - I've let go of friends that she didn't approve, I'd stop going out late nights so she wouldn't keep nagging me - unfortunately, when this happens, she has already started to control your life.

Be a man, be independant, live your life, do the things that make you happy..if she can't deal with it - Next the chic.