"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When girls return texts hours later or the next day even..

lakeshore

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I'm sure this has been discussed before but what the hell is up with that?

I don't expect everybody to return a text the next minute but what is the point 6 hours later??

Its fairly annoying. Not so much if you don't really like the girl but idk, its pretty lame.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WhitePimp

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She either has Low Interest or she's playing a game (or in some cases, legitimately busy and away from her phone - this is usually never the case). Lower your interest accordingly or play the game harder.
 

horaholic

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Maybe her life doesnt revolve around you?
 

lakeshore

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horaholic said:
Maybe her life doesnt revolve around you?
well thats the same thing as saying low interest. sure thats one possibility.
 

starplayer

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It depends on the situation but if she is high IL in other ways (eg. you make out / have sex when you actually meet up) she is playing hard to get to make you want her more. Does she give long replies and seem interested when she eventually gets back to you?

If she doesn't seem too bothered about you generally then it's low IL.

Also she could just be busy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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