"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When girls return texts hours later or the next day even..

lakeshore

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I'm sure this has been discussed before but what the hell is up with that?

I don't expect everybody to return a text the next minute but what is the point 6 hours later??

Its fairly annoying. Not so much if you don't really like the girl but idk, its pretty lame.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WhitePimp

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She either has Low Interest or she's playing a game (or in some cases, legitimately busy and away from her phone - this is usually never the case). Lower your interest accordingly or play the game harder.
 

horaholic

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Maybe her life doesnt revolve around you?
 

lakeshore

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horaholic said:
Maybe her life doesnt revolve around you?
well thats the same thing as saying low interest. sure thats one possibility.
 

starplayer

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It depends on the situation but if she is high IL in other ways (eg. you make out / have sex when you actually meet up) she is playing hard to get to make you want her more. Does she give long replies and seem interested when she eventually gets back to you?

If she doesn't seem too bothered about you generally then it's low IL.

Also she could just be busy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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