"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When girls get TOO ****Y

verysuave

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Sometimes i say things naturally and sometimes women think that "IM TALKING ABOUT THEM"

For example, I would say some sexual innuendo and they would say something like for example "pfff, I'm not that easy" or something in that nature

THen i would reply by saying "Don't flatter yourself"

or

"How do you know I was talking about you"

anyone do this? or how would you reply to something like that
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WC2

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This isn't being ****y, this is a woman not showing her outer-slut to everyone. Whenever you use sexual innuendo in public with a girl who isn't YOUR girl, she will automatically put up a shield.

It's not that they're afraid of you, but they're afraid they'll be labeled a slut.

It's a common response and coming back with something like don't flatter yourself is fine.

Just don't back away from these things, this is one of many sh!t tests women give you to see how far you will go. If you back away right away, clearly you're not a man who can satisfy her emotional and sexual desires.

So in short, you have the right idea.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MisterMcGee

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Yep 'creepy' is a basic neg that girls use. Pretty annoying cause it doesn't mean anything nowadays, and literally anything can be creepy, from being confident to being random and unpredictable.
 

Five To One

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Dannyrt34 said:
"I'm not easy either. In fact, I'm a little hard."

USE IT!


haha i love it.

You get rep because this is something im defenently going to use
 
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