When girls dont ask you questions

[NeedToImprove]

i dont know if this has been discussed about or not, but if a girl is attracted to you or she gives signals she's interested, when you start a conversation with her and you notice you do all the talking and she doesn't ask questions about you what would be the best actions to take? i'm talking about field conversations and you can also include internet chats as well.

Plus why do this happen frequently, i try to talk about different subjects, goals, dreams, family, about herself, and they often dont talk too much and it feels kinda awkward.

 

[Jariel]

I know what you mean. It's great when you meet a woman and conversation just flows naturally, but I've been on many dates where I'm just getting one word answers. Instincts would tell you that it's a lost cause and she's not interested, but some women are just shy and not good at holding conversations.

A lot of girls I dated started out like this and I got a bad vibe from them, yet it turned out they liked me a lot. After a few dates and phone calls they started feeling more comfortable they started opening up a lot more.

 

[thejerk]

In every interaction there is USUALLY one person who has more power. You, are giving away your power. You're probably way too available. Way too boring because the underlining meaning to all of what you are saying is "I want your ***** and I don't have the balls to say it." Less talking and more action.

 

[NeedToImprove]

i think im a good conversationalist and a good listener too, but maybe i need some more convo subjects, topics that arouse their interest, any ideas?

 

[Alle_Gory]

Talk to more people. Ask questions, read... etc. Get to know the world around you and you will be more interesting.

 

[Exhumed]

My theory is that some girls are dumb as sh!t, boring, and have no idea how to have a proper conversation with a guy. The charismatic, creative, interesting girls generally contribute to the conversation pretty well....but I find it difficult to mack on really boring girls. I suppose the less talk more action thing is a valid solution.