"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When Girls Call You "sexy" ?

KneghtRyder

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How come they didn't say your "good looking" or "your cute' or 'handsome' or 'hot' but they all use the same word "sexy" to describe me..

I mean , different girls who don't know each other, but they use the same word

someone said that "sexy" means they think you've got money ? I was well-dressed at this club ...



WHY SEXY ? and what does it translate to in female terms
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It translates too, "I want to suck and fvck your cvck." Really, what is so hard to figure out? The word sexy is actually better than cute, handsome, good looking, etc, because sexy refers to sex.
 

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ryannath said:
It translates too, "I want to suck and fvck your cvck." Really, what is so hard to figure out? The word sexy is actually better than cute, handsome, good looking, etc, because sexy refers to sex.


good looking or cute could also mean "I want to suck and fvck your cvck."


I was wondering if "sexy" means they are attracted in other ways like mentally (since I was well - dressed )
 

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KneghtRyder said:
How come they didn't say your "good looking" or "your cute' or 'handsome' but they all use the same word "sexy" to describe me...

someone said that "sexy" means they think you've got money ? I was well-dressed at this club ...



WHY SEXY ? and what does it translate to in female terms
Rofl, are you retarded? A women called you sexy and you're asking what that means exactly? :yes:
 

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You know, a girl just said to me: "I wanna suck your c0ck." But she DIDN'T say: "I want you to fvck me up the azz." Girls are so confusing. Why do they say things like that? I can't tell if she's attracted to me or not.

Thickandcreamy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thickandcreamy said:
You know, a girl just said to me: "I wanna suck your c0ck." But she DIDN'T say: "I want you to fvck me up the azz." Girls are so confusing. Why do they say things like that? I can't tell if she's attracted to me or not.

Thickandcreamy
Well, since she didn't say, out loud, to your face, that she wanted you to do her in the butt, she definitely doesn't want you to sex her. :crazy: :p
 

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Oh, and another time, a girl took me by the hand, led me to the bedroom, and took off her panties and then she started playing with her cl1t. Then her legs started bucking all over the place, and she started squirting all over the sheets. But she didn't say anything to me, so I guess she didn't like me. Girls are so confusing!

Thickandcreamy
 

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dynamicallyidle said:
Rofl, are you retarded? A women called you sexy and you're asking what that means exactly? :yes:
I say we create another section called "Common Sense."
 

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Rofl, are you retarded? A women called you sexy and you're asking what that means exactly? :yes:

Just wondering if theres a difference between being physically attracted to you and just being attracted to you because of your well-dressed/confidence the way you present yourself...

I guess maybe its not so obscure as I am making it out to be , as in sexy as a code word for attractive to your manliness ..I guess sexy means same thing as good looking etc

guess its the common sense answer
 

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sexy=attractive

cute/handsome= good looking


just think about this, have you ever seen one of those girls that have amazingly beautiful faces, but you just don't really feel any sort of pull towards them? it's just like that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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my girlfriend calls me sexy and she is apparently one of those girls that want to wait til marriage to have sex (yeah it sucks). so it don't always mean she wants to **** you, it's just a compliment, which at least means she likes you
 

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This is quickly shaping up as one of the worst threads ever. If it weren't for those "do looks matter?" threads, you'd be right at the top of the list.

KneghtRyder said:
Just wondering if theres a difference between being physically attracted to you and just being attracted to you because of your well-dressed/confidence the way you present yourself...

I guess maybe its not so obscure as I am making it out to be , as in sexy as a code word for attractive to your manliness ..I guess sexy means same thing as good looking etc

guess its the common sense answer
 

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You know, that totally clarifies things for me. I TOTALLY understand the distinction between "attractive" and "good looking" now! I NEVER realized that handsome/cute means good looking, and that sexy means attractive. Good job!

Kev07 said:
sexy=attractive

cute/handsome= good looking
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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