"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When girls ask "why I asked her out".

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I had a few dates with different girls, with varying results recently. Some of them paid off, some did not. However, the girls kept asking a question which I did not know how to answer. Namely: "Why did you ask me out/on a date".

Surely I have my reasons, but at the moment I am not sure I know how to react to it in the most efficient (and non-beta) manner.

One girl I met via Orkut, so I told her, that I want to know her better.

One girl I had met before and seemed to fancy me a lot asked me why I asked her on a date. Though on that occasion it was not really a "date", as I had simply told her I might be in the town at the same time she was, and albeit I told her we could meet, it was she who sealed the deal, when she asked me whether I was available, or not. Anyway, I told her I had not asked her on a "date".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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" Well,Based on your looks, it was to have sex! I just wanted to know if I could deal with your personality before we head down that road!" He said with a mischievous grin!
 
WanderingMan

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I believe ZTIME has the right idea.

It seems these ladies are fishing for compliments and-or giving you some type of **** test.

So, in your response, be anything but serious :up:
 
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"The other lucky girls were busy"
 
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"Because I wanted to."

I don't understand why this is tricky.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Obsidian said:
"Because I wanted to."

I don't understand why this is tricky.
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That's pretty much it. Sometime she's got self-esteem issues, maybe thinks you're "above her" or something, and wants to make sure you're not going to pump and dump.

You might want to expand a bit, (very playfully):

"Based on what I know about you, I like you, and I wanted to find out a little bit more. That's what we humans here on Earth tend to do when they're might be a mutual interest. They spend time talking, usually over a meal, to see if there's any basis for further interaction. I've even heard that some people end up spending a LOT of time together, sometimes even moving in the same house! Then all these NEW people, like really small ones suddenly show up, like magic or something, I'm not really sure how that works...anyhow, how do they do things like this on your planet?"
 
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