"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When friends spend all their time with their g.f?

TheMainMan

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What does everyone do when their best mates have no time except for their new girlfriend?

Got a great friend but I cant be asked with him anymore. Probably called about 3 times since xmas and cancelled twice on going out drinking at the last minute.

****ing annoying.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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redd

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Take up some hobbies meet new people etc.Call some old friends. Get out there do more ****! Easier said than done I know obviously not a great friend if cancelled twice.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why are you acting as if your mate is your girlfriend?
 

insanity

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i had a friend like that. it seemed we'd planned to go boozing and at the last minute he would cancel, because he was hanging with his girl for the night.

the situation reversed though cause just as his woman broke up with him, i had met a girl and it was the puppylove bullcrap stage and when he called me up to go out, i cancelled at the last minute. he then proceeded to call me whipped. it's funny when friends who do the same thing have the balls to call you whipped.

i'm sure if you met a girl who laid you every night, he'd be complaining too.
 
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