"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When #fml reality Trumps your frame.

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How is it possible to bend reality to your frame when your frame tells you you're a 10 in looks yet reality says your genetics dictate you really are only ever going to be a sub5 at best?

You can frame yourself to be an astronaut all you like but if you aren't an actual Astronaut you're doing nothing but wearing the emperors clothes.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thats life son
 
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Walk around like you're a 10, people notice the confidence.

Dudes don't like it, but chicks do
 
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It's little things. Walk around like you own the place.

Gotta go to Walmart for something? Walk in that heathen, legs a striding, arms a swinging, big d1ck in your pants. Nobody wants to fvck with you.

You need to have that mindframe most of the time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AgentofChaos said:
How is it possible to bend reality to your frame when your frame tells you you're a 10 in looks yet reality says your genetics dictate you really are only ever going to be a sub5 at best?
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Imagine this for moment, it doesn't really matter what you look like as long as you are maximising your looks and believe the women you are attracted to are attracted to you.

If you believe you have to be a 10 to have a chance with women you're doing it wrong.

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You can frame yourself to be an astronaut all you like but if you aren't an actual Astronaut you're doing nothing but wearing the emperors clothes.
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I'll just quote someone much smarter than me to answer this:

"Before you can do something, you must first be something." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

In other words, you become what you are in your mind first.
 
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