Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When #fml reality Trumps your frame.

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How is it possible to bend reality to your frame when your frame tells you you're a 10 in looks yet reality says your genetics dictate you really are only ever going to be a sub5 at best?

You can frame yourself to be an astronaut all you like but if you aren't an actual Astronaut you're doing nothing but wearing the emperors clothes.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thats life son
 
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Walk around like you're a 10, people notice the confidence.

Dudes don't like it, but chicks do
 
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It's little things. Walk around like you own the place.

Gotta go to Walmart for something? Walk in that heathen, legs a striding, arms a swinging, big d1ck in your pants. Nobody wants to fvck with you.

You need to have that mindframe most of the time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AgentofChaos said:
How is it possible to bend reality to your frame when your frame tells you you're a 10 in looks yet reality says your genetics dictate you really are only ever going to be a sub5 at best?
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Imagine this for moment, it doesn't really matter what you look like as long as you are maximising your looks and believe the women you are attracted to are attracted to you.

If you believe you have to be a 10 to have a chance with women you're doing it wrong.

AgentofChaos said:
You can frame yourself to be an astronaut all you like but if you aren't an actual Astronaut you're doing nothing but wearing the emperors clothes.
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I'll just quote someone much smarter than me to answer this:

"Before you can do something, you must first be something." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

In other words, you become what you are in your mind first.
 
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