"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mackdaddy27

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this is a very interesting post,

This girl who can't leave me alone for the past week or so,
I realize this is the best practice of my life. (or fun time)

she enjoys correcting me on my behaviour
makes me practice my style push -pull game. its almost
like its freakin scripted. and I love it

her first impression on me the word is intimidated by her
presence ( shes an IVy league grad) and career. and I love a smart girl

At first I was ready to drop her over this thinking she would take to much time,
let alone gaming a girl with 2 masters. but i realize even though
I am not into it for a long term, I will not allow this oppertunity to pass me bye because I will learn or enjoy myself. and she doesn't have much of a choice
it will be good experience for me to find out what worked and
what didn't. I now know I've realized that I can't step aside like a AFC. An alpha trait to stick around and enjoy this chapter
, and heck the experience is invaluable.
Think about it , a girl is giving your first hand scripts to fill in.

now I can fill in the blanks and have a laugh afterwards.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What experience do you need? All you have to do is start believing in yourself and portray that you do. Women want a leader and strength. Someone who doesn't feel like they have to figure out if they are doing this or that right or wrong.
 

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I'm not sure if that's the best way to go about upping your stats. Keeping a girl around for the sake of "the fight" will ease your comfort level when you're with her specifically but often when keeping that same mentality with other girls, you'll find yourself short.

It's okay to keep a single plate spinning because there are no ties or commitment assosicated with plates. However, you shouldn't not over look the key to the experience portion of your game, which is touching base with as many girls as possible. Playing the field is the primary way to equip yourself with the tools to socialize on several levels.
 

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Maybe what you need is the opposite. It sounds like you need to be alone. You need to work on some self-improvement. If you are happy and love yourself, then you can't lose. You'll never lose. I'll bet money that once you find yourself and love yourself you probably won't want a woman for a while. Oh, and guess what! Women will throw themselves at you. It's guaranteed.
 

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mackdaddy27 said:
this is a very interesting post,

This girl who can't leave me alone for the past week or so,
I realize this is the best practice of my life. (or fun time)

she enjoys correcting me on my behaviour
makes me practice my style push -pull game. its almost
like its freakin scripted. and I love it :D

her first impression on me the word is intimidated by her
presence ( shes an IVy league grad) and career. and I love a smart girl

At first I was ready to drop her over this thinking she would take to much time,
let alone gaming a girl with 2 masters. but i realize even though
I am not into it for a long term, I will not allow this oppertunity to pass me bye because I will learn or enjoy myself. and she doesn't have much of a choice
it will be good experience for me to find out what worked and
what didn't. I now know I've realized that I can't step aside like a AFC. An alpha trait to stick around and enjoy this chapter
, and heck the experience is invaluable.
Think about it , a girl is giving your first hand scripts to fill in.

now I can fill in the blanks and have a laugh afterwards.

:crackup: just had to rewrite your post :D it's all good just making a slight adjustment to the mindset with the right words.

First of all YOU must realise there is no fight! once you get into that mindset you are putting her above you and admitting you have to climb a mountain.

her intelligence level or career or life style is nothing more than something that might supplement your life if there is a void. if I were you I would enjoy this but not persue her as the 2 masters and career states she's financially independant and there for has the higher ground on making decisions and I conclude this by the words you used to describe this situation of yours with her. (that's ofcourse assuming you're not swimming around in money)
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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