the tyler durden method does work. although it does have flaws...those being that if you ever marry this girl the tyler durden method is a very dysfunctional way of handling things as it will simply lead to extended periods of non communication.
one method to try - it doesnt work on all women (but i dont think any one method does) - is try getting her to simplify her issues down to just a few.
when women explode they tend to bring up 1.34 million issues at once. they bring up x, you start to address x, then BAM, suddenly your getting hit with j,n, and y - you try to get your barrings and address j,n, and y and then BAM - issues a,f,u,and z suddenly blind side you.
so try controlling the pace of the conversation. get her to SLOW down. tell her that you want to address ONE thing at a time. ask her of all the things she wants to talk about which one upsets her the MOST.
if you're able to get her to toss up ONE MAJOR issue then you can address it and odds are she will be so happy that you did that, that she won't bother bring out the other million issues she has.
women are VERY bad at arguing. they dont argue they throw tantrums. so the key is to get them out of tantrum mode - which is endless chaos and unfocused emotional discharge - and get them focused on a particular issue.
but if you let her control the convo then realize that its NEVER just a convo, its actually a ball busting session and if at any point you even come close to defusing the tantrum she will simply keep switching up the topic over and over and over so that she can keep busting your balls.
one method to try - it doesnt work on all women (but i dont think any one method does) - is try getting her to simplify her issues down to just a few.
when women explode they tend to bring up 1.34 million issues at once. they bring up x, you start to address x, then BAM, suddenly your getting hit with j,n, and y - you try to get your barrings and address j,n, and y and then BAM - issues a,f,u,and z suddenly blind side you.
so try controlling the pace of the conversation. get her to SLOW down. tell her that you want to address ONE thing at a time. ask her of all the things she wants to talk about which one upsets her the MOST.
if you're able to get her to toss up ONE MAJOR issue then you can address it and odds are she will be so happy that you did that, that she won't bother bring out the other million issues she has.
women are VERY bad at arguing. they dont argue they throw tantrums. so the key is to get them out of tantrum mode - which is endless chaos and unfocused emotional discharge - and get them focused on a particular issue.
but if you let her control the convo then realize that its NEVER just a convo, its actually a ball busting session and if at any point you even come close to defusing the tantrum she will simply keep switching up the topic over and over and over so that she can keep busting your balls.
